This man saved me. Bravo
When I asked her if she told the therapist “everything”, she replied with
the classic line: “I only tell her what I want her to know”, which agrees
with the idea that she is in total control of the situation, and uses the
therapist as narcissistic supply (being on the same level as a professional
There is a loophole in this that the female narcissist I know used, and is
probably still using. She read a lot about therapy before she even started
the sessions (10 years ago), which agrees with the idea that a narcissist
uses “obscure phrases that only a professional would know” (as Mr. Vaknin
said in an earlier post).
You are amazing! All my questions have been answered by your videos and
book which I read in one day! Thank You!! You have helped me so very much I
have been confused with my relationship for 6 years, not anymore!!
We’re assuming therapists are mature individuals who can be trusted
emotionally. Many therapists do use gimmicks and lack depth of curiosity
and good will. Ted Bundy was savvy in psychological lingo and was
considering becoming one himself! Find that therapist who you sense is your
friend, and that could be one in a thousand. Then we could have a proper
discussion about the possibility whether such relationship has human
integrity for that kind of trust should be awarded the therapist on merit
Does a narcissisats have trouble making up their mind? I had a hard time
going to fun places. If someone was going to the amusement park I would not
care to go. I would go, but only went once. Had a lot of fun I would say a
narssisits should live next to a theme park.
This seems like a very self serving promotion, almost narcissistic.
Although the analogy with munchawsen is cute and poetic, it is a fairly
silly application of a physical action (literally picking oneself up,
impossible paradox) to a psychological process, which doesn’t obey “the
laws of gravity”. I don’t think therapy is inherently bad, quite the
opposite. But your assertion that it is necessary is dubious and unproven.
You display an infantilizing version of the medicalization of the soul.
if you provided some arguments that consider the disorders you describe as
holding at least a kernel of validity, instead of dismissing them outright,
it would be more credible and more importantly, more honest and valuable.
By categorizing “them” versus “normal” people so mundanely and
intolerantly, your marketing of disorder as something that can be consumed
and disposed of, in your book, for example, is transparent.
You are escaping the very fact that in that normalcy you can find love, be
loved, the real deal. I don’t believe that that means not being able to
include fantasy in your own life or relation itself.
maybe if you were a victim of a narcissist your opinion would be different.
They might not intend to, but they CAN destroy you, your self worth and
self confidence, they love themselves too much that you mean nothing more
than a tool to feed their need for attention and they throw you away the
moment they feel you dont conform… leaving you feeling cheated and
destroyed. If they are not heal-able, then facts are facts… no one can
validate destroying people around them for their own disorder
there is a chemical prob. in the brain as well. homeopathic treatment by an
expert homeopath can really help.
People can change. If you are in a relationship with one, distance yourself
very much or cut off if possible–but PEOPLE can CHANGE! It’s the beauty of
being human! All true change is just a return to LOVE!
Hey Sam… I really love your videos. I just wanted to say that you might
want to adjust the level of your mic. It tends to max out and distort your
audio recordings. This will be fixed if you turn down the mic.
This peakock is gay. It’s in his innacurate mouth, slightly twisted mouth,
and goat-like head boading. I bet he is insecure under the mask of
authority and absolute knoledge.
That’s a no brainer. Men become gay because they hate women. Wouldn’t be
the first time it happened.
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